I have installed such a lethal spam killer that even my own comments are considered as spam now.
Friends, if you have commented, and for some reasons, it doesn’t appear immediately, chances are it has been caught in the moderation queue. No need to worry. Once I’ve approved, it will be visible. But if your comments still don’t appear after a day or two, then please send me an email to let me know. Otherwise, I may never know and your comments will never ever see daylight here. If you’re some asshole planning on staining this blog, hey, you belong in the trash anyway. Hor li ki si lah.
Since we’re on this, I must well say a few more things.
- I’m a private person.
- Because of 1, I sometimes change my pictures after a while.
- If I don’t do 2, then I might passworld protect my entry.
Yup, I am PARANOID! Because of what I do, some anal people mistakenly assume I should be a *wow kow* role model and wouldn’t understand why role models still need to kaopeh, or vent. I don’t want to be under scrutiny by people I work with especially. This is my playground for creativity and personal musings. I need the space to be able to blog freely. For a matter of fact, I don’t give my blog address to even my closest friends or siblings. I have so far only given my blog address to two friends. One of whom comes in frequently. Gavin’s Godma came in here before only because she is a smart woman and knew the power of the search engine.
And there’s one thing I’ve been wanting to say for ages now…to my dearest husband.
You’re allowed to read my blog, but not allowed to comment or ask anything in person UNLESS I initiate the discussion first. It’s a NO NO! Especially to say ANYTHING behind my back while I’m blogging. 
Haha.. I like your warning to your husband!! Maybe I should do that too..
Comment by zara's mama — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 2:41 pm
Hey..SS,
I fully comprehend what you are saying. .i’m in the same boat with you .. where blogging is concerned. Unfortunately, for me.. the town i am in.. have some really relentless assholes.. who keeps looking for me.. therefore i now password protect almost everything. .except the most mundane stuff.
As for Papa Bok reading my blog.. i think he cannot really be bothered about my ranting.. and my discussion with my family and friends from home.
Comment by Mama BoK — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 2:48 pm
Oops..!
I meant to write.. “I hear yer gal..”
Comment by Mama BoK — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 2:49 pm
Hehehe…. my husband reads my blog once in a blue moon. Whenever he does, he leaves a comment. It’s the one I NEVER reply to
Comment by the diva — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 3:35 pm
Hahaha..the warnning to your hubs..simply cool!!! I like it!
I give out my blog add to my siblings..they only read and never comment; friends wise, only a special friend knows about it and she too, read but never comment..
As for my dear hubby, well, he reads every week but i forbid him to comment.. ;p
Comment by Eileen — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 4:11 pm
Just wanted to ask … is that the quote from the black cat in “Looney Tunes”? Sounds really familiar …
Funny thing about my site is … the ones that do have the web address never make a comment. My siblings as well … what is up with that?
Comment by Loong — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 6:06 pm
heehee…
Wonder what’s your dear hubby’s response to that warning?
Comment by Domestic Rat — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 @ 6:41 pm
Hahhahaa.., think most husbands of mommy bloggers would like to visit their dear wifes’ blog once a while, to kay-poh a bit. But I also think they all know jolly well that it’s a personal area where we don’t really need their comments.
Comment by kwai yoke — Tue, 21 Mar 2006 @ 10:07 am
Zara’s Mama: I remember you writing once that you’ll chase him out of the room if you’re blogging or reading blogs.
Mama Bok: Sounds like you’ve got stalkers. For me, it’s not so much that. It’s more like some pple I work with don’t understand that I may have a private life/persona outside working life.
Diva: Heehee…I haven’t figured out which comments are from your hubs. Must go and read carefully.
Eileen: You also forbid him to comment? As in your blog? Does he say anything to that?
Loong: Hehe…it’s from Sylvester The Putty-tat!
DR: He hasn’t read this yet. I think he’ll not take it seriously. What I should have written was that if it happens again, I’m going to post his pix here for everyone to see (like Mama Bok’s style.) Hahahaha…see he scare or not!
KY: He won’t comment on my blog but he’ll make comments to me. In fact, he likes to tease me about it and sometimes irritates me!
Comment by sesame — Tue, 21 Mar 2006 @ 11:37 am