Grrrrrrrrrrrrr… I am fucking pissed! :mad: My MIL had the nerve to call me and antagonise me further and to use my FIL to threaten me. Oh, she thinks that I’ll be worried that my FIL would be angry with me because what I did was supposedly “wrong”. So I called my FIL to set the record straight about why I am so angry with my MIL and why I’m not giving her a damn.

While I admit that my attitude was poorly, I told him that there are valid reasons for my display of anger. How dare she sneak behind my back with all her devious acts, and now even accusing my maid of lying. First, she fed my son Vitagen when I’ve repeated told her not to. Well, even though I later found out about what she did through my husband, I never did blow my top at her. Not until I learnt that she had instructed my maid, in front of my son, not to tell me about the feeding. And not until I learnt further that she has been asking my maid if she’ll continue working with us next year when I’ve at least warned her five times not to raise the subject at all.

So what sort of respect does she expect when she’s not giving me any? Please… don’t tell me that I’ve to respect you just because you’re the MIL. Respect does not come automatically with a title. Respect is a privilege earned. She even had the nerve to say that she has every right to feed my son whatever because she’s the grandma. What gives her the right? “What’s so great about grandma?” I asked her. A grandma who can’t respect a mother’s decision, and a grandma who can’t impart proper values to the grandson. What’s so great about this type of grandma?

And I just learnt from my FIL that she has fed my son Vitagen on a few occasions, not just once as she has claimed. So what sort of woman is this? What can I say about her except that she’s DEVIOUS? In fact, my FIL is aware of what has happened because she has already complained to him, although she has earlier said she did not breathe a word to him. DEVIOUS DEVIOUS DEVIOUS!!!

This is not the first display of her deviousness. This is already the umpteen time. But this is the final time I draw the line with her. Enough is enough!